I,m a resident in Oklahoma City, OK and we are wanting to start a HomeOwner's Ass. any Ideal's would be helpful.

TLF

Get with the Neighborhood Alliance of Central Oklahoma.  They can and will help. 

Their web site is www.nacok.org and their address is 1236 NW 36th Street.  Phone # is 405.528.6322.  Their Web site has a lot of information and I would suggest that you apply for and attend their next "LEADERS for TODAY" class.  The class is an 8 week, one night a week and a couple of Saturdays and it is free.  The best class I've seen for neighborhood leaders.  Theit Executive Director is Georgie Rasco. 

If you already have a neighborhood association also contact them and read your covenents.  Be aware that a Neighborhood Association is much easier to get started than a Home Owners association.  It take at least 60% of home owners approval to start a home owners association.