Muscatine

Am I quitting?

I don't know, Chosen, to be perfectly honest. I'm new to this. There are 19 answers to your original post. Some of the answers were actual anwers to your post. The rest were ''garbage'' meant to hurt others with an agenda of their own. It seems that happens a lot here.
It could be a ''few people'' taking on all sorts of different names so that they can make lots of posts to drag the person they dislike through the mud, continually dragging the rest of us into the dirt with them? (I didn't even know that was possible, apparently/sadly it is).That IS NOT what I'm looking for or what I hoped for when I found this site. I want to come to a site & have conversations with adults.
I personally want to know who I'm talking to, their beliefs & values, not a psuedonym chosen on a whim.
That is my choice, I can't & wouldn't dream of forcing it on another. If that is what others choose to do to make this site work, I guess that is what has worked? It's not for me to say, just not sure if it's for me yet. There are some very, very nice people here & I have appreciated all of their kind words, wisdom & humor.

tlou

.I love how you tell it like it is. you have a lot of great advice to offer and dont play the games some like to.you are needed here to level some of them out.I admire your sense of who you are and what you stand for I wish there were more like you.you remind me of Julia sugarbaker, she could tell people off in such a great way without being nasty.she could embarrass them to death all the while being real.you give a good tongue lashing when needed. please stay I think you are greatly needed here to keep us all grounded to the real world. please stay!

thanks wroe

I appreciate your encouragement. I'll try to stay? I loved the Golden Girls, Julia Sugarbaker was awesome. Julia was so sure of herself. She had the strength & courage to stand up, no matter what. So did Dorothy. I think I'm a ''little bit'' of both, don't think I could fill their shoes. It doesn't mean I wouldn't try. There are some very nice people here & some real bullies. I'm just not sure if I have the strength or desire to take them on @ this point of my life? I hope that makes sense to you. Thanks for your support & kind words, though.