Support For Ann
Your post wasn't in any way, shape or form shy or mousy! YOU GO GIRL! DANG, your words expressed what many of us are confused about & feel while reading the posts!
There are a few posters w/ vendettas against others for real or imagined hurts from the posts & just won't let them go! The rest of us DO NOT need to be brought into their issues. Like you, I'd like to respect & treat others with dignity and hope for the same treatment. I'd like to be part of the solution.
Since I don't know, (or care), about any posters past vendettas... I reconcile it in my head like this. If I feel moved enough to respond to a post; (with no prior knowlege of posters ''reputation) , I do. Sometimes I'm angry as I type, other times I feel a connection & want to show the poster support. Compassion & Empathy seem to be missing on this board. You have both, Ann. You said what you meant & you meant what you said. You were not shy or mousy; your husband should be proud of the strength it took to write what you did. It may not make a difference to all, I bet it will to a few! It did for me. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, you BRAVE soul!
Your post wasn't in any way, shape or form shy or mousy! YOU GO GIRL! DANG, your words expressed what many of us are confused about & feel while reading the posts!
There are a few posters w/ vendettas against others for real or imagined hurts from the posts & just won't let them go! The rest of us DO NOT need to be brought into their issues. Like you, I'd like to respect & treat others with dignity and hope for the same treatment. I'd like to be part of the solution.
Since I don't know, (or care), about any posters past vendettas... I reconcile it in my head like this. If I feel moved enough to respond to a post; (with no prior knowlege of posters ''reputation) , I do. Sometimes I'm angry as I type, other times I feel a connection & want to show the poster support. Compassion & Empathy seem to be missing on this board. You have both, Ann. You said what you meant & you meant what you said. You were not shy or mousy; your husband should be proud of the strength it took to write what you did. It may not make a difference to all, I bet it will to a few! It did for me. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, you BRAVE soul!