Muscatine

He shouldn't use the term either.  Any other questions?

How true and Yes a couple.

In looking back more than a hundred pages and through countless hours now with several insulting and rude comments posted by others that both offend and draw ire, not once did you make such a call as you did to me. Why not one of them but directly me. Also those many comments from others included foul language and references to the mentally challenged, and direct specifics to drinking and unsavory character. They know who they are. Why only me and within comments I made to replies from a harassing individual and only to him to start with---no one else? Had we been engaged in a serious discussion and not some tit-for-tat "hillbilly Hatfield and McCoy-ish act" I could fully understand how BOTH of us might have offended anyone outside the comments to each other. But to be sure I doubt very much he was and I certainly wasn't. But as it goes your comments although have some merit, to the mentally ill and homosexual, but nonetheless, it had nothing to do with anyone else in the first place. A man didn't like my logic nor did I think he had the right to mock me much less anyone else, a man that obviously spun off the mind of the same person but going under another name. We got into what turned out to be a silly game. As far as I am concerned, I will not stop replying should he continue but will tone it down a bit. My husband has always felt me to be a bit passive aggressive at times.

I guess that came out a bit

I think we can answer, yes, to most of those.   You don't get a free pass just because I, or others, don't take the time to search out all the times you did it.

Why? Because BigBrother has proven himself to be an honest man and is comfortable in his own skin.  You on the other hand wish to be all things to all people, insist that your way is the only way, and want us to believe that you're something you're not.  Your "he did it first" logic is childish and it's offensive to think that we'd be okay with it.  Your "silly game" is silly only to you. 

Big Brother??? What does that person have to do with it.

I was ONLY chatting with BDEYE and was getting along quite fine in the realm of banter he chose most often to delve. I take full responsibility for anything I actually say as it were should I actually have meant it. But I didn't. Comfortableness in one's own skin? Seriously? that's YOUR justification to allow such behavior in others but one? On the other hand, I'm many things to many people and because you think you know something doesn't then give you any more right than anyone else to pass such judgments. I have yet to insist anyone think my way and that's all---I do respect other's opinions and the right to express them. I refused to call some a wacko for still pushing the Bush brought down the towers theory, thought it is in my opinio just a wacky idea. Actually that silly game was quite easy for BDEYE--- and to me is all that he seemed to be concerned with, least he go down that road with anyone else. You certainly can goad if you will, but childish isn't far from many arguments and dramas within many of these long pages by many people and topics. As this is now becoming and then some. I don't seek your approval. I spent weeks on end taking the bologna from this person who thinks it's funny. Not you, me. I am tired of being called a lib, a liar, pushy, offensive and anything else you apparently seem to know about, so the list is no secret to you then. If I were to say Bush was a dream president and espoused literally everything the so called republicans did and said we wouldn't be talking about any of this now. I have been a target for feeling comfortable in my own skin and speaking my mind. THAT goes against the grain of most on these links and therefore have to stand alone in the corner while cheap shots and so called voices of reason step up to ad to the fray. If you really read any of those pages you might actually understand.

Thank you for your concern anyway.