More from SPED teacher
I want to clarify a few things---when I mentioned confidentiality factor, it is the child's confidentiality I am referring to. Mr. Wilkinson and the PLSD cannot come out and say that the child being restrainted was a behaviorally disordered child who was having one of his daily outbursts. If they do, it will eventually come out who the child is and that from the school's standpoint must be kept confidential. By being so vague, it makes the school look bad, but the law states it must be done this way.
About contacting the parents....think out this....if abuse really took place, would the child still be in Tussing? I have children and if I believed for the slightest second that abuse took place, my child would be pulled from that classroom and taken somewhere else. I don't care if Social Service and the school said no it didn't happen, I'd pull them if there was reason to believe it happened. Here's the thing...the parents of these kids know they are bad, they know they throw fits and uncontrollable tantrums, and any reasonable parent that deals with this type of special needs child knows that restraining the child is necessary at times. Again...if you have never been in this situation, you would not understand. It is noted everytime a child is restrained and discussed with the parents periodically---most likely sent home in a daily or weekly report. Ten to one, the parents knew of the incident---just not that one particular person who does not know or fully understand the situation viewed it is as abuse. Many teachers will tell you that they don't have the patience to deal with this...it's not an easy job...but it has to be done. A person without some sort of background with special need children does not need to be making comments and disrupting things when the teacher is only doing his or her job.
And one final thing to ponder.....it is the job of the press to write things in such a way to produce controversy. It is a reporters job to make you question or think things you may have not concluded---they have a tendency to stretch the truth. Just keep that in mind.
I want to clarify a few things---when I mentioned confidentiality factor, it is the child's confidentiality I am referring to. Mr. Wilkinson and the PLSD cannot come out and say that the child being restrainted was a behaviorally disordered child who was having one of his daily outbursts. If they do, it will eventually come out who the child is and that from the school's standpoint must be kept confidential. By being so vague, it makes the school look bad, but the law states it must be done this way.
About contacting the parents....think out this....if abuse really took place, would the child still be in Tussing? I have children and if I believed for the slightest second that abuse took place, my child would be pulled from that classroom and taken somewhere else. I don't care if Social Service and the school said no it didn't happen, I'd pull them if there was reason to believe it happened. Here's the thing...the parents of these kids know they are bad, they know they throw fits and uncontrollable tantrums, and any reasonable parent that deals with this type of special needs child knows that restraining the child is necessary at times. Again...if you have never been in this situation, you would not understand. It is noted everytime a child is restrained and discussed with the parents periodically---most likely sent home in a daily or weekly report. Ten to one, the parents knew of the incident---just not that one particular person who does not know or fully understand the situation viewed it is as abuse. Many teachers will tell you that they don't have the patience to deal with this...it's not an easy job...but it has to be done. A person without some sort of background with special need children does not need to be making comments and disrupting things when the teacher is only doing his or her job.
And one final thing to ponder.....it is the job of the press to write things in such a way to produce controversy. It is a reporters job to make you question or think things you may have not concluded---they have a tendency to stretch the truth. Just keep that in mind.