Never take one chance
Christine: I agree with you when you say one should never take a chance with your kids' saftey even if there is a millionth of a chance of something happening. This is the best statement I have heard in a long time. My kids are older now and I am really distressed by the carelessness shown by some parents. (My own family included). It should be made clear from the beginning of whatever acitivity your child participates in that you have strict boudaries. Let the leaders know it is not personal, you take this precaution with everyone and then no one will be offended. At my church every child care worker, class teacher, etc. is now asked to consent to a background check. They acutally did weed out a person by doing this. We cannot un-do harm to our child ren but we can limit the occurances by being careful and yes, always being suspicious. My personal view is that the proliferation of pornography has led to a new, darker, and more dangerous form; child pornography. The popular culture plays into this too. That is why Britney Spears and the like have been so popular, it is not the little kids. Young girls' clothing is another area. At one time the media portrayed women who wore fake fur and lacy clothing as hookers, now little 8 year olds wear this stuff. We have to be honest about what is happening.
Christine: I agree with you when you say one should never take a chance with your kids' saftey even if there is a millionth of a chance of something happening. This is the best statement I have heard in a long time. My kids are older now and I am really distressed by the carelessness shown by some parents. (My own family included). It should be made clear from the beginning of whatever acitivity your child participates in that you have strict boudaries. Let the leaders know it is not personal, you take this precaution with everyone and then no one will be offended. At my church every child care worker, class teacher, etc. is now asked to consent to a background check. They acutally did weed out a person by doing this. We cannot un-do harm to our child ren but we can limit the occurances by being careful and yes, always being suspicious. My personal view is that the proliferation of pornography has led to a new, darker, and more dangerous form; child pornography. The popular culture plays into this too. That is why Britney Spears and the like have been so popular, it is not the little kids. Young girls' clothing is another area. At one time the media portrayed women who wore fake fur and lacy clothing as hookers, now little 8 year olds wear this stuff. We have to be honest about what is happening.