Fun with our kids?
Aussie brings up some very valid points. There have been many times I have failed w/ this. There have been other times I felt I succeeded.
In my household, I deal w/ the teen years & pre-teen years. That can be challenging. We play games/ we do crafts. We had a box from a refigerator. My grandaughters had many, many hours making it their playhouse.
I also feel the need to pull all of them away from the TV, video games, etc. After the loss of our precious dog, the desire in our household was to 'bury the grief in those very games/shows.'' Our response was to take our teen & grandaughters on a beautiful fall drive to Loud Thunder''. We had some arguments; we did it anyway. It was awesome! We ended up renting a boat, on the lake. The words & emotions shared were priceless to us all.
Another thing we have taken advantage of, that ALL ages appreciated, is the Comedy Sportz Club in Rock Island. It is a family-friendly place, open on Fri. & Sat. evenings. $8.00 tickets in advance; $10.00 @ the door. It is Improv Comedy, audience participation required! We all love it! Starts @ 7 pm, ends somewhere around 9:30 at the latest. Lots of laughs, bonding, etc.
They are only w/ us for a short time. We need to FORCE our kids to bond with us. They want it...they just don't know it yet. We are the adults...our job to make it happen; board games @ home or outside, whatever works. Put up with the negative attitude, the gripes, etc. Look your child in the eyes & tell them how much you love them & how much you miss bonding w/ them. Ask them for ''X'' amt. of ''family time.'' They may gripe; I think they secretly appreciate it & will ''hopefully'', one day share stories w/ their children about the times ''we MADE'' them do it...''and, in my perfect world..make their child do the very same?