Verbally abusive to TP? What would be an example of that? I don't understand. Do you mean that if you or I called him a dumb butt, that would be verbally abusive? Not that I'm calling him a dumb butt, but just theoretically....if someone pointed out the fact that he was a dumb butt....you'd call that verbally abusive?
Don't you actually have to speak it to be verbally abusive. Just writing that he is a dumb butt, I would think, is not verbally abusive.
If you write the fact that he is a dumb butt, isn't that really "compositionally abusive", or "scrivenly abusive"? That is, if you or someone actually did it.