? The hell
With the courage it can take to open ones heart and share such feelings or the obvious regarding such a loss. The last thing anyone expects, is for someone with a point, besides the one on top of his or her head, to inform you in an extreme overstatement of the obvious, how much worse it could be, who couldn't have known what might happen instantaneously every second. Logically your suggestion would then be: Wrap yourself in an invisible sheild of absolute protection from any accidents or misfortune and live as a framed picture. If you cannot say something nice, don't say anything at all Thumper.
With the courage it can take to open ones heart and share such feelings or the obvious regarding such a loss. The last thing anyone expects, is for someone with a point, besides the one on top of his or her head, to inform you in an extreme overstatement of the obvious, how much worse it could be, who couldn't have known what might happen instantaneously every second. Logically your suggestion would then be: Wrap yourself in an invisible sheild of absolute protection from any accidents or misfortune and live as a framed picture. If you cannot say something nice, don't say anything at all Thumper.