Maybe her opinion of you is the same! Perhaps, she should let everyone in the neighborhood know where you live! Maybe your children are obnoxious to her children at school, and maybe she has the health insurance on her family and that's why she works, maybe someone in her family is terminally ill, or maybe she's heard you bad mouthing her to other people! Regardless of the situation, you should have been less defamatory and certainly less specific, if your such a great person yourself, why would you do that to her children?